In my experience, it seems we all have a spiritual spark held within the earthen vessels of our human bodies. It may be defined by many different religions or beliefs but this spark is something we all have in common. It gives each of us the ability to commune with one another, especially when confronting serious health issues or at the end of life.
As a person struggles with health issues, their spirituality and emotions many times swirl together. There is anxiety, fear, anger, frustration, sadness, doubt and more that seem to surface as people grapple with physical needs and disease. One’s spirituality many times can be a tool to help explore, process, and accept these feelings.
I use to think a chaplain was to be a guide, leading patients as they navigated these important health issues. However, I have come to believe I am more of a companion, one who compassionately walks alongside them. I provide a comforting presence and bring the familiarity of a patient’s spirituality or religion to bear on their emotions throughout their journey. Whether it is a familiar prayer or hymn, a rosary, a chant or meditation, a recognizable scent or incense, or simply affirming touch, these all provide comfort at a time of great need.
I strongly believe that as people come face to face with serious health challenges and terminal diseases, having compassionate, caring people at their side who address their physical, emotional and spiritual needs can make all the difference.